Naked People

Adam & Eve by Julia Trops

MEN HAVE PENISES. Women have vaginas. Both have breasts and nipples. And depending on the circumstances, they can all change size and shape.

Really, that’s all there is to it. Except that all of it is also remarkable and wonderful. So why the fuss about displaying nude art, even when it gets “graphical?”

Unfortunately, when it is treated poorly—and especially when it is forbidden—nude art becomes offensive not for what it shows but for how it corrupts the natural beauty and sensuality of the human body. Treated well, it conveys an evocative poignancy as nothing else can.

Even more unfortunately, there are people who, for a variety of reasons, have an extreme or disturbed relationship to sex and sexuality. But nude art displayed in galleries is not, to my knowledge, breeding or worsening those exceptions to the rule. And even though I just got my second email in two days from my daughter’s kindergarten about purported sex offenders approaching children, I would not keep her from nude art.

Sketch by Robert Henri

I remember when our female neighbor in California died of cancer last year. We knew it was happening and when it finally did, my daughter asked if she could go see Constance in her bed where she had died at home. We went and my daughter stood next to Constance’s motionless body for a few minutes, studying her face. Then she said, “The difference between people who are alive and dead is that when they’re dead they don’t have lips.” And we walked back across the lawn to our house.

Some hours later, my daughter asked if she could go see Constance again, so we did. Once again, she innocently, fearlessly studied the dead body (I was more uncomfortable than she was). She then walked outside where a group of adults were sitting with morose faces and declared, “Constance is not dead. Her spirit is alive all over the sky.” Needless to say, the mood changed. And we once more walked back to our house.

Sex, death, and life need exploration. The more, the better. The more freely, the healthier. The more beautifully, the happier. We don’t have to advertise or share or endlessly discuss all of them. But they are all there as the largest forces in our lives whether we know it or not. •